Tattoos, Piercing, Dye Hair (Short or Long hair)

 

Is it that bad?

Hmm, gue merasa resah banget dengan orang-orang yang langsung nge-judged orang yang punya Tattoos, Piercing, or Dye their hair.

“ih dia pasti narkoba”

“dia cabe-cabean”

“dia pergaulan nya bebas pasti”

They said. 

Like, really? What is your problem?

Let me explain, everyone have a reason.

Example, me. I dye my hair, I really want a tattoo(soon!!) too and I have a reason for doing that.

Me never feel confident about my self, and i'm not rich enough to do surgery (lol jk) so gue memutuskan untuk melakukan perubahan hal kecil didiri gue yang membuat gue nyaman menjalani hari gue. It's not make sense maybe, tapi itu sangat membuat gue nyaman. Saat gue bangun I feel different and more comfortable. Do you know that? No because you are too busy talking shit behind me.

That’s my reason. And di luar sana masih banyak alasan dan cerita yang berbeda yang kalian gatau. Beda orang beda cerita, pasti. Apa lo peduli tentang itu? I don’t think so.

But, you don’t need to know what exactly their reason(because maybe it’s a sensitive question for some people). But you just need to stop judged and let them do what they want. Is it that hard?

I'm not saying Tattoos is good, di Alkitab sih bilang:

“Tidak tahukah kamu, bahwa kamu adalah bait Allah dan bahwa Roh Allah diam di dalam kamu?” 1 Korintus 3:16

Tapi, setau gue kita disini untuk saling mengingatkan mana yang baik mana yang tidak, bukan malah nge-judged “dia pasti pake narkoba liat aja dia tattoan”,“dia pasti orang jahat”, “gamau ah dia tattoan” trus ngejauhin mereka, right?  

And i just want to say, kalo hidup kita belum bener stop judged orang and perbaikin diri dulu, siapa tau orang yang tattoo-an yang kalian bilang orang jahat itu hatinya lebih emas dari kalian?

At last but not least, if you can't say something nice, don’t say nothing at all.

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