Tattoos, Piercing, Dye Hair (Short or Long hair)

 

Is it that bad?

Hmm, gue merasa resah banget dengan orang-orang yang langsung nge-judged orang yang punya Tattoos, Piercing, or Dye their hair.

“ih dia pasti narkoba”

“dia cabe-cabean”

“dia pergaulan nya bebas pasti”

They said. 

Like, really? What is your problem?

Let me explain, everyone have a reason.

Example, me. I dye my hair, I really want a tattoo(soon!!) too and I have a reason for doing that.

Me never feel confident about my self, and i'm not rich enough to do surgery (lol jk) so gue memutuskan untuk melakukan perubahan hal kecil didiri gue yang membuat gue nyaman menjalani hari gue. It's not make sense maybe, tapi itu sangat membuat gue nyaman. Saat gue bangun I feel different and more comfortable. Do you know that? No because you are too busy talking shit behind me.

That’s my reason. And di luar sana masih banyak alasan dan cerita yang berbeda yang kalian gatau. Beda orang beda cerita, pasti. Apa lo peduli tentang itu? I don’t think so.

But, you don’t need to know what exactly their reason(because maybe it’s a sensitive question for some people). But you just need to stop judged and let them do what they want. Is it that hard?

I'm not saying Tattoos is good, di Alkitab sih bilang:

“Tidak tahukah kamu, bahwa kamu adalah bait Allah dan bahwa Roh Allah diam di dalam kamu?” 1 Korintus 3:16

Tapi, setau gue kita disini untuk saling mengingatkan mana yang baik mana yang tidak, bukan malah nge-judged “dia pasti pake narkoba liat aja dia tattoan”,“dia pasti orang jahat”, “gamau ah dia tattoan” trus ngejauhin mereka, right?  

And i just want to say, kalo hidup kita belum bener stop judged orang and perbaikin diri dulu, siapa tau orang yang tattoo-an yang kalian bilang orang jahat itu hatinya lebih emas dari kalian?

At last but not least, if you can't say something nice, don’t say nothing at all.

 #CareMore 

We Exist.

Is it okay to be…


Shy?

Afraid?

Lonely?

Pushing people away?

Or even hurting yourself?

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What your first thought when you saw a shy girl/boy?
What would you do if you meet a girl/boy who always afraid to do something new?
What you feel when someone tell you they are feeling lonely?
Are you worried when someone trying to push you away and closed their mouth and never tell you what their problem is?
What would you say to her/him when they said they are hurting theirselve because there is no one when they are feeling down?

Are you even care about people around you?
Or
Are people care about you?


I'm a shy girl, gue gapunya cerita seneng about my childhood. I got bullied, insult, and have no friends.
Since those days, I’m always afraid to meet new people and to do something new.
And this shit getting worse, I can’t even speak in front of people even just two people in that room, I will feel insecure and think what would people think about me.

“It can’t be the worst”

Really? I just skipped my prom night because I’m not confident with my dress and I’m afraid I will fall from my own heels or make something more embarrassing things.


“Things Will Gets Better”

They said. No, I will forever locked in this hell and no one can save me, even myself.


I’m writing this all not for inspire people,
I just want to people know we exist,
And please don’t let them eat us alive.
Bring us to your world, help us through this.
Don’t leave us. 

x

First of all i'm just afraid to tell people my opinion. So maybe this is the only way I can tell my opinion without being judged. Lately i've been talking with myself with my own thought and i'm going crazy about that. 

So hope you enjoy! 

Share your opinion too, i'd love to hear it from you!